The 10th House: Unlock Your Potential

House number 10 (also known as the Midheaven) is the highest point of your natal chart, and represents the unleashed potential of an individual. Being the loftiest and most elevated point in your chart, it reveals the ability of the person to achieve ultimate success in his career. The 10th House shows among others, your career, vocation, public reputation and achievements in life. What type of career would suit your best? Would you achieve a high status in society? How would the world remember you? These are the questions that can only be answered by the 10th House. 

A career should not be confused with a job. Unlike a 9-5 day job, the 10th House shows your true talent and accomplishments. For eg, a chemical engineer by profession may be very good in cooking and dreams of becoming a chef. He ultimately quits his job to open up a sushi restaurant. Thus we see how your job may not necessarily become your career in the end. Your career contributes to how the society and world would remember you. Hence, the 10th is also called the house of reputation. Having a well-aspected Midheaven is certainly an advantage.

The Midheaven is ruled by Saturn. the planet of business and hard work. Saturn rules the sign of Capricorn, the mountain goat, and so the 10th house is all serious business. Now you understand why Capricorns are so disciplined and hardworking. The motto of Capricorn is "No pain, no gain" as the mountain goat slowly climbs to higher peaks with patience. It goes without saying that Capricorns are intensely ambitious and they can join the rat race, stay in the rat race, persevere till the end and win the rat race. Their stamina is amazing, as they are often rewarded with authority and wealth. 

The 10th house also corresponds to father figures and male authority figures. In a man's chart, it usually describes his mother, while in a woman's chart, it describes her father. Either way round, it shows the characteristics of the parent with greater authority in the child's life. In love astrology, a woman is usually sexually attracted to the type of man that expresses the attributes of her Midheaven (father figure), as she aspires towards a husband or mate that can fit the shoes of the male authority figure in her life. This sexual attraction is not limited to only women. From my experience, I have also observed many men being attracted to the female partner that fulfills (either partially or fully) the criteria of his Midheaven. As the 10th house is linked to ambition, I assume this attraction is based on feelings of admiration and respect for the qualities expressed by the potential partner that fits the career goals of the individual.

The 7th House: Are you Built for Marriage?

The 7th House is the realm of marriage. Ruled by Venus and the sign Libra, the 7th describes your first marriage partner. It does not describe your lovers or sex buddies or flings (those are ruled by your 5th House) or any other hanky-panky you might had, including co-habitation. The 7th House is dead serious. It is soooo serious, you need to sign a legal contract binded by law, and that is why any relationship that requires you to sign a contract falls under the 7th Libra realm.... Note that Libra is represented by a pair of Scales.... scales of justice. The same scales that sits outside the court of law, with the goddess Nemesis weighting your faults... so yes, Libra is a very fair sign. The 7th House is also fair, that is why it prefers equal partnerships in the eyes of law. It wants husband and wife to share their duties and responsibilities towards each other. It is about commitment.

So how do you judge a good 7th House? How good or bad it is depends on the planets sitting in it and the planetary aspects they made. Chief to all these, is the 7th house ruler, or Descendant (DC) ruler. If a divorce, for example, is going to happen in future, the DC ruler is able to accurately predict using prognostic techniques. However, before examining the compatibility chart between 2 souls in a marriage, we need to ask you a critical question: Are you the marrying type? Are you suited to married life, or are you better alone? Astrology says some people are not built for marriage, while others thrive in it. Each individual has a different capacity for love, and they may not be able to give or receive love freely. To know this, always refer to the individual natal chart...

To ascertain if one is meant for marriage, and has a capacity for married life, there are a few conditions to be avoided in the natal chart. I present 3 of the most notorious ones...

Moon opposing or squaring Sun

When the Moon either squares or opposes the Sun, this person has a character unsuited for marriage. The individual has a severe identity crisis within himself / herself....there is a fierce inner conflict that cannot be resolved. This identity crisis has to do with gender identity confusion that is rooted in parental disharmony since childhood. Both mother and father are perceived to be totally separate units, not united at all. As a result, the individual cannot reconcile the male and female gender roles. I notice people with the Sun and Moon in hard aspects often struggle with traditional gender roles, and often behave in a way that do not reflect their inner reality. Their external image will always contradict their internal self-image. In other words, they are a walking bag of contradictions. Caught in a perpetual inner battle with themselves, they have a limited capacity for receiving and giving love. Marriage often fails, as they are often unaware of their own contradictions, and tend to have a stubborn character unwilling to change for others.

Ascendant opposing or squaring its own ruler

When the Ascendant (AC) is in hard aspects to its own ruling planet, this person may come across as too scary or too aggressive for others. He has an overwhelmingly strong appearance that puts people off immediately. Not many people can handle their killer "aura" or presence in the room, which provokes an instant gut reaction. Since the AC rules your physical appearance, the individual often comes into conflict with others due to their appearance. The message that is conveyed from their body language is very different from their true characters. Unfortunately, such a person is usually extremely stubborn, and does not get along too well with others who are not like-minded. As such, their presence can be seen as provocative. Marriages do not fare well. It is not advisable to marry in general. In the example above, Aries AC is opposing its own ruler, Mars.

Uranus sitting in the 7th / Descendant cusp

When Uranus is in the 7th House (DC), this is the classic divorce aspect in astrology textbooks. To be avoided at all costs. As the planet of separation, Uranus rules physical distance and will always create a distance between husband and wife. A couple cannot stay under the same roof for long. They must separate, either through traveling, or busy work schedule. I have seen a lot of long-distance marriages and perpetually absent spouses with this aspect in my clients' charts. The spouse will create excuses not to be at home. Uranus is also very selfish, self-centered and willful. The individual will never bend over to cater to anyone, and they will NEVER change. Not in a million years. The individual can never really enter into a proper partnership, since they value their personal space and individualism too much to sacrifice it for another person. The concept of partnership does not exist for them. Forget it. You will never be a unit together. There is only "I" and "you" who happen to live together. After marriage, "I" will continue my own activities, while "you" will do your own thingy. In the above example, Uranus is not only sitting in DC, it is also opposing the AC and Moon, which makes it doubly worse... An honest astrologer will never recommend marriage in this situation.

The Ascendant, The Self and Love

The Ascendant is the mask that you wear and show to the outside world. It is a portrayal or representation of yourself that others see around you. The Ascendant is the image of yourself that you project to the external world.  It is everything from the way you walk, talk, laugh, eat, sit, breathe, etc. However, the significance of the Ascendant goes beyond that of a mere mask. The Ascendant rules your physical self. It is literally your body. A short or tall, fat or thin person can be seen from their Ascendant and planetary aspects to it. In short, it is your bodily rhythm, breathing pattern, skin temperature, etc. Because the Ascendant is your physical body, it is extremely powerful in medical astrology. Sickness or health can be diagnosed from aspects afflicting the ruler of the Ascendant. 

The Ascendant (AC) begins at the cusp of the First House in your natal chart. It is also called the Rising Sign. Since it is a material manifestation of yourself, it represents your first contact with the world as a baby. When a newborn baby first takes a breath outside his mother's womb, the AC energies are absorbed by the child's body. The AC governs your looks, habits, self-expressions, etc. This is a natural process, and a person will express himself in such a way that matches his AC sign without realizing that they are doing it. Most people are not aware of their AC. As such, the give off wrong messages to the outside world. For example, a woman with Aries AC may come off as a tough, aggressive tomboy to strangers she meet. However, only her close friends and relatives will know that she is in fact, a soft lady at heart (Moon in Pisces) and a talented artist (Sun in Taurus). The AC mask, in short, creates a protective shell which often misrepresents the individual to the rest of society. 

Another notorious aspect of the AC is that it governs sexual attraction. Surprised? Sexuality, after all, is something very physical and has to do with your body. The AC is the strongest factor determining attraction, instant chemistry or love at first sight since it gravitates towards individuals that matches the biological rhythms of your body. However, I must say this is a purely sexual and superficial aspect of love. Although the AC controls the "animal" attraction, it is the Moon, ultimately, that determines compatibility in a couple.  

Ascendant in Fire 

The AC in fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sag) have an active, energetic and extroverted image. They are instantly attracted to fiery type of partners. The example above shows a Leo AC woman who goes for the active, "showy", sporty type of man who probably likes children and animals. Alternatively, a Leo AC may also go after rich partners. The whole idea is to get a partner that she can be proud of so she can shine in his glory. If your partner's Venus falls into your First House, you can call it a love-at-first-sight scenario. Or lust-at-first-sight, whichever is more applicable. The chemistry is usually instantaneous.  

Ascendant in Water 

The AC in water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) have an emotional, sensitive and introverted image. They can go after the "soft", nurturing type of partners who embodies certain artistic notions. The exception is of course, Scorpio, who is really the fiercest sign in the entire universe. The example shown is that of a Scorp AC man who is attracted towards strong, domineering, even manipulative ladies. He is magnetized by sexually-aggressive women. Of course, the opposite example would be a Pisces AC man who is drawn towards gentle, artistic and dreamy women with a sad past. Water AC folks tend to like spiritual partners.

Ascendant in Earth 

The AC in earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn) have a very sensible, practical and reliable image. They are attracted to partners with earthy qualities like good management skills, level-headedness and money-making abilities. Let's face it, earth signs are all about the $$$. The example above show a Taurus AC man who gravitates towards domestic, motherly women who can cook delicious meals for him. He is looking for the ultimate Martha Steward who can spoil him with good food and great sex while decorating the home beautifully and taking care of the kids. Additionally, Venus is placed inside his First House, making him a very handsome man indeed. 

Ascendant in Air

The AC in air signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius) are very talkative dammit. They have a friendly image, and are seen as sociable diplomats. They get invited to parties all the time. They can be attracted to witty, intellectual partners. The above example shows a Gemini AC woman who goes after charming men who can engage her with funny conversations at parties. She falls for guys who are fast in words, and enjoy traveling like her. In short, air AC folks admire intellect and wit in a partner.        

The Moon and Motherly Love.

The Moon is the most important planet in classical astrology. If you know absolutely nothing about astrology, it helps that you only know about the Moon and its position in your natal chart. The Moon is so powerful, in fact, that it influences who and what you perceive yourself to be. It shows your raw, primal, most animal-like self from birth. Childhood is the period when you are most like your Moon sign. As a kid, you can't control your impulses yet, and is innocent and pure in your behaviour. That state of innocence as a child is your true self - shown by your Moon. As the ruler of childhood, the Moon rules your feelings, your heart, and your soul - things you cannot control. It lurks under your psyche, telling you when you're hungry, horny, excited, angry, sad, etc. Strip away all the masks of culture and pretense and all you find beneath is your naked self - your Moon. We tend to behave like our Moon sign unconsciously. It is our inner child, our home. When nobody is around, we become our Moon signs. 

Besides childhood, the Moon shows your relationship with your mother. A Moon in fire sign (Aries, Leo & Sagittarius) reveals a strong, active mother who is always in action, while a Moon in water sign (Cancer, Scorpio & Pieces) indicates a mother who is emotional, sensitive and somewhat temperamental. Moon in air signs (Gemini, Libra & Aquarius) shows an intellectual mother while Moon in earth signs (Taurus, Virgo & Capricorn) tells of a practical, no-nonsense type of mom who takes her duty seriously. Furthermore, we need to look at the condition of the Moon in your chart to determine the specific impact your mom has made in your life. A harsh or negatively aspected Moon shows that your relationship with your mom is conflicted, troubled, or problematic. A positively aspected Moon reveals a smooth and harmonious relationship with mom.

For men, the Moon also predicts the type of woman he is going to marry. From my experience as an astrologer, it is an accurate predictor of the type of wife a man is looking for, as well as the relationship he needs to have with his wife. This is rooted in psychology whereby a wife is a mother substitute in the hearts of most men. 

It is essential for you to know what type of Moon you have, it's position & condition in your natal chart to gain self-awareness of your relationship patterns. If you have been having a string of destructive or failed relationships, perhaps it is time to look at your Moon.

Fire, Earth, Air & Water.

Astrology is based on the 4 elements - fire, earth, air, & water. The qualities of each element greatly influence the individual's character. It is a strong predictor and determining factor in his natal chart. Depending on which element that is dominant in the chart, the person will display the strengths and weaknesses of that particular element. Novice astrologers often underestimate the importance of the elements, and that is the reason why readings are not deep or insightful enough. Veteran astrologers, meanwhile, tend to place a heavy emphasis on elemental qualities, which enable them to pick up subtle hints and meanings about a person.  

FIRE

FIRE TRIAD - Aries, Leo, Sagittarius.

FIRE PLANETS - Sun, Mars, Jupiter.

FIRE HOUSES - House I, V & IX

Fire symbolizes force, energy and will power. It burns and crackles and sizzles. When fire is strong in a natal chart, that person will have high vitality and self-confidence in life. He will be physically robust, confident, and extroverted. That is why Aries, Leo & Sagi are energetic signs. They can't sit still. They represent masculinity, the "Yang" energy which is forceful and assertive. When fire gets channeled in the right direction, it conveys the gift of great optimism and leadership in life. A person can always bounce back in times of down and has an inner light of joy and hope which cannot be extinguished. Sir Winston Churchill famously had a fire trine in his natal chart. It allows him to inspire a nation with hope during a time of great gloom and depression. Fire lights up the dark, and he lifted Britain out of darkness. A fiery leader can be very brave and inspirational in the face of challenge, despite all odds. There is a need for competition, and a need to push themselves. Fiery people are very competitive and thirsty for challenges. They are also frank, straightforward and rather blunt in their expression. They see what they want, they take it. Action speaks louder than words.

GIFT: Energy, Vitality, Assertiveness, Confidence, Leadership, Athleticism, Optimism, Joy, Hope, Inspiration.   

CURSE: Aggression, Violence, Impatience, Arrogance, Selfishness, Egoism, Destructiveness, Promiscuity.

EARTH

EARTH TRIAD - Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn

EARTH PLANETS - Venus, Mercury, Saturn

EARTH HOUSES - House II, VI & X.

Ever heard of the expression "down-to-earth?" That describes earth, which is pragmatic by nature. They are practical, sensible people with a rational head. They think clearly in times of emergency and can be relied on to solve problems. Earthy people are managers and troubleshooters. They are indispensable to an organization. They work with structure and effectiveness. These are people born with their eyes open, as they are realistic about the world. They do not waste time dreaming or do useless things which will benefit nobody. They can work very hard to achieve their ambition. Gifted with managing skills, earthy folks plan things ahead and execute their plans with patience. Their planning skills are quite legendary. So are their ability to do business. The greatest businessmen in the world - Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Warren Buffet - all have strong earth elements in their chart. You can't do business without a good deal of earth. Reputation and status in society is something very important to earthy people, and they will always want to leave an impact in society; to be acknowledged for their success and achievement. As such, they climb the ladder slowly and steadily. They plant the seeds, water the plant and reap the fruits. They don't believe in shortcuts. Their stamina is amazing, and they can endure setbacks in life - because they persist.

GIFT: Common Sense, Practicality, Realism, Responsibility, Reliability, Loyalty, Endurance, Productivity, Resourcefulness, Diligence.

CURSE: Materialism, Greed, Ruthlessness, Coldness, Manipulativeness, Boring, Rigid, Stubborn, Pessimism.

WATER

WATER TRIAD - Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces

WATER PLANETS - Moon, Neptune, Pluto.

WATER HOUSES - House IV, VIII & XII.

Still water runs deep, or so goes the saying. Water people are deep and emotional. They are incredibly passionate, ruled by instincts. They represent femininity,  the "Ying" energy which is nurturing and life-giving, like a mother. They are capable of deep, lasting relationships and unconditional love. Bonds forged in water can never be broken. Water people have an unparallelled capacity for love and intimacy. They love so deeply they are willing to die or sacrifice themselves for their closed ones. Perhaps because they have such strong feelings, they become introverted and guard their feelings closely. They put on masks so they don't get hurt. Emotional security and intimacy are the most precious things to a Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces. Uncontrolled passion can be their undoing. So channel the passion wisely, into the right direction. Water folks are gifted with fertile imagination, which makes them excellent artists, musicians, writers, actors and actresses. Since they are sensitive souls, they tend to have faith in God. Faith comes to them easily. Mahatma Gandhi, Mother Teresa and many religious leaders have strong water emphasis in their natal charts.

GIFT: Altruism, Love, Faith, Imagination, Creativity, Spirituality, Passion, Compassion, Instincts, Intimacy, Sincerity.    

CURSE: Too Emotional, Fragile, Oversensitivity, Insecurity, Defensiveness, Gullibility, Low Self-Esteem, Dreaminess.

AIR 

AIR TRIAD - Gemini, Libra, Aquarius.

AIR PLANETS - Mercury, Venus, Uranus.

AIR HOUSES - House III, VII & XI.

Air is a symbol of the mind. Intelligence is the hallmark of airy people. They live in their minds, in the world of ideas. Imagination is their strong point. They are gifted with articulate, sharp tongues and can express themselves well. Witty and humorous, they love to communicate and excel in delivering charming, persuasive speech. The world's best lawyers, politicians and public speakers have heavy air element in their chart. If you don't have air, you have no soft skills. You can't speak or write persuasively. In other words, you need air to communicate, to build bridges with others. The more air a person has, the more charming that person is. They can charm the birds off the tree. Too much air, however, can lead to impracticality and escapism in the form of wild fantasies. As a rule of thumb, airy people are not practical. They are satisfied by gaining knowledge, through reading, writing, chatting, socializing, etc. In other words, they are nurtured by "building castles in the air." If Mars is weak in their chart, they may not be able to put their thoughts into action, and so become unproductive. Therefore, a strong Mars is needed to ensure these airy folks take action. Many scientists, like Albert Einstein and Isaac Newton, have lots of air in their charts. Air tends towards a progressive, scientific outlook.

GIFT: Intelligence, Logic, Wit, Charm, Sociability, Humour, Ideas, Originality, Innovativity, Refinement, Culture.  

CURSE: Impracticality, Superficiality, Fickleness, Vanity, Indecisiveness, Restlessness, Unproductivity, Laziness, Escapism.

    

Sex According to Pisces

PISCES, THE FISH (February 19 - March 20)

Ruler: Neptune & Jupiter

Element: Water

Character: Emotional, Sensitive, Escapist, Dreamy, Artistic, Gullible.

Energy: Medium

Libido: Medium

Sex style: Pisces makes obedient little sex slaves who will please you unconditionally. Pisces is easily seduced and offers little resistance to temptation. They can be led astray into promiscuity and all sorts of perversions. As a rule of thumb, they are good in bed.  This is because they can read instinctively what their partner wants (like a psychic) and projects these fantasies on themselves. They will let you dominate them in bed. Scorpios make the best sex partners for Pisces. Escapists by nature, the Pisces may enhance their erotic experience with drugs and booze. Alcoholism is a bad habit of Pisces, and needs to be watched out for. They may fall into drinking and narcotics in order to escape from the drudgery of life. Reality is often a disappointment for Pisces. They live in their own worlds. As such, they are especially good at role-playing in bed, especially exploitative roles like a rape victim. Pisces is a born actor / actress. Many legendary sex sirens (Marilyn Monroe, Elizabeth Taylor, etc) have strong Pisces or Neptunian emphasis in their natal charts and they can easily project other people’s sex fantasies onto themselves.  

Sexual fantasy: Masochism. Role-play. To be exploited shamelessly.

Romance: Pisces is the most romantic sign of all. The Fish eats, sleeps, breathes romance. They leave lipstick love notes on the mirror and scatter rose petals on the bed. They love to give surprise gifts to their beloved. They buy cuddly soft toys for their partners and prepare candlelight dinners. The Pisces boyfriend is an overgrown teddy bear, while the Pisces girlfriend is a lovely angel. Romance is a form of escapism. So caught up in romance they are that they forgot reality and life. However, do not be fooled by the seemingly gentle, thoughtful Fish. Many Pisces are prone to promiscuity, and are weak to temptations. Hence, they can be unfaithful lovers because they just cannot say “no”. For example, a woman who throws herself naked to a Pisces man has a good chance of sleeping with him. Despite this weakness, Pisces is a sign that loves unconditionally. They sacrifice everything of themselves at the altar of love. As a result, they are often taken advantage of, and bullied into doing favours.

Marriage: Pisces is often married to a strong-willed, domineering sign like Scorpio, Leo, Taurus, Aries or Capricorn. They tend to attract a powerful spouse who is a bit of a dictator. The spouse will also need to balance the account book, fix the lightbulb and buy groceries as Pisces is really bad at practical stuffs. The Pisces wife dotes on her husband lovingly, although she may dissolve into tears if hurt. Crying is a hobby of Pisces. Having no weapon to defend themselves, the Fish often resorts to manipulating feelings of guilt and sympathy. The Pisces husband, while handsome and artistic, may resort to passive-aggression and emotional blackmail. Tears come readily to their eyes and the Pisces man is more in tune with his feminine side than the average guy, regardless of how macho he may appear outside. Periodically, he will need to withdraw from reality and go into hiding. When this happens, he may cut contacts with his wife and family. Do not be upset with his withdrawal, because the Pisces man just need time to chill off. He will always bounce back stronger and happier. As a parent, the Fish will beguile their children with storytelling sessions. They will instil a love for the arts and literature into the hearts of their offspring and teach them the power of the imagination.

Sex According to Aquarius

AQUARIUS, THE WATER BEARER 
(January 21 - February 18)

Ruler: Uranus & Saturn

Element: Air

Character: Intelligent, Radical, Rebellious, Eccentric, Unpredictable, Individualistic.

Energy: Medium

Libido: Medium  

Sex style: Aquarius is a weird and freaky sign. They rule the Internet and pornography. Any visual depictions of sex in the virtual realm belongs to Aquarian territory. Since the Internet is a realm where everything is possible, and anything goes, their brains are very perverted. They are intelligent folks with no limits in imagination. They are the Kings of mental masturbation. The mind is a devil’s workshop. Aquarians get turned on by ideas. When it comes to sexy time, Aquarians can be the most kinky sign in the world since they are detached from the physical act itself, being cold and objective even in the throes of passion. Their detachment from their body allows them to experiment with sex and push the boundaries beyond social rules and norms. Radical and rebellious, the Aquarian may hold some very shocking ideas about love and sex. They may insist on free love and cannot stand jealousy of any kind. 

Sexual fantasy: Internet sex, Pornography, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism.

Romance: Aquarians are prone towards friendzoning and being friendzoned in return. They are never short of friends of the opposite sex. And they enjoy keeping lots of groupies / admirers as “friends.” These are folks most likely to keep a Twitter account and post selfies to Instagram in order to be “liked” and “followed” by their friends cum fans. They share the same weaknesses as Leo, their cousins. Deep down, the Aquarian wishes to be admired by others. Friendship will slowly replace love and sex. However, Aquarius has difficulty forming close emotional bonds with anyone. As a rule, they are too independent and prefer to remain a distance from their beloved. Long-distance relationships and coveting another man’s girlfriend, is something Mr. Aquarius likes to do. Aquarius dreams of unattainable romance.  They want what they cannot have. In fact, the more unattainable the love is, the more attractive it is. That is why Aquarius rules the crazy Internet. They are as guilty as Libra in dreaming of an ideal, perfect romance which will never come true.  

Marriage: They are not at home. And they won’t be at home. Aquarians need their own space and freedom to do their own thingy.  Once a while, they may drop by the house to visit the family. They don’t like to be “suffocated” so physical distance is a must. Too much intimacy can be unbearable. They also like to tell others what to do. So you better listen, listen, and listen…. Generally, Aquarians make brilliant spouses who dance to their own tune. They have a rich social life outside the house. As parents, they are interested in educating their children’s mind. Aquarius is actively involved in charity, community work, clubs and societies (including the church) which may replace family.

Sex According to Capricorn

CAPRICORN, THE SEA GOAT (December 22 - January 20)

Ruler: Saturn

Element: Earth

Character: Dutiful, Responsible, Ambitious, Materialistic, Hardworking, Mature.

Energy: Medium

Libido: High

Sex style: Capricorns are cautious. They want control, no, they need control in sex. Therefore, the goat chooses his or her partner carefully. Although initially guarded, they will unleash their true colours in bed once their partners manage to win their trust. Capricorns have amazing stamina and can make love for hours and nights, only stopping to go to work. They are sensual beasts at heart and will reveal a hedonistic and wild side behind closed doors. Goats are, after all, the ancient sign of virility. But they are very private persons. To the outside world, they might appear serious and formal, but once behind closed doors….it’s game on! Do not be fooled by their seemingly cold look. They are pretty hardcore in bed. However, they tend to plan and organize their sexual encounters ahead, so as to leave nothing to chance. As mentioned above, they like control. This extends to fantasies of disciplining their partner in bed. The sitting sex position is quite popular with them, as it requires maximum grinding. Capricorns are grinders. They have a fetish for rubbing their organs. Some enjoy inflicting pain on others, and assume the role of dominatrix.

Sex fantasy: Dominatrix, Sadism, Master-slave, Sitting sex, Grinding, Paid sex.

Romance: They stick to traditional gender roles. Age gap is common, as Capricorns might prefer either much younger or older lovers. Some Capricorn women have father issues and are looking for a father figure in her romantic partner. Their lust for money and ambition, however, may see them going for partners who are useful, and can benefit them materially. In romance, they can be pretty business-minded for Capricorns love to plan ahead.  They might view love as a business transaction, or a quid pro quo bargain. Old-fashioned values are okay with them. They fall in love slowly, and gradually opens up to their partners once they are convinced they are in safe hands. When Capricorns are young, they might feel sexually-repressed. Once they grow older, they become more lecherous.

Marriage: Capricorns are born managers. They will manage their lives and their spouse’s live. Capricorn marriages are very lasting and durable. They tend to stick together, through thick and thin, not out of love but out of fear of material loss in the event of divorce. Property, money and status are the most important things to a Capricorn, and they will aspire for marriages that will allow them to climb the corporate ladder.  Capricorns are “users” and can be quite cold and rational about “using” their spouse. They are very objective-minded and clear-headed about what they want in a marriage, and will arrange for things to work.  Capricorn wives will try their best to ensure that their husbands achieve success. As a spouse and parent, they are responsible and reliable. A bit of a strict disciplinarian, they may set some rules in the household.

Sex According to Sagittarius

SAGITTARIUS, THE ARCHER (November 23 - December 21)

Ruler: Jupiter

Element: Fire

Character: Friendly, Adventurous, Uninhibited, Open-minded, Blunt, Insensitive.

Energy: Very high

Libido: High

Sex style: The Sagittarian love for traveling means that he is more likely to sleep with a foreigner. In fact, Sag is the sign most likely to have sex partners of foreign nationalities and exotic backgrounds. Their curious, wandering nature means they like to explore things under the sack. This leads to multiple sex partners. Sags don’t give a damn when it comes to sex. They love freedom and free love. To hell with with rules and morality. They want to be free to love whoever they want. Outdoor sex is one of their fantasies, and these are people who can do it on the roof of their cars while enjoying the chilly air. They will also do it in the middle of a forest surrounded by animals and trees. Anything exciting and thrilling will do. They are open to new experiences. Uninhibited is the right word to describe the Sag. Similar to their Gemini cousins, Sags like variety in sex and will have multiple partners throughout his or her life. They have a rich sex life. 

Sex fantasy: Outdoor sex, wild orgies, threesomes, casual buddy sex.

  

Romance: Sagittarians are party animals, like Leo. They have a deep love for partying, and can be a bit hyper if they meet the right type of friends. They value friendships a lot and will always try to befriend their romantic interests. Friendship can be used as a cover to disguise sexual feelings. If you meet a Sag girl, always start out as her friend. Then from friendship, slowly take it to the next level. A typical Sagi male will have roving eyes, and will always look at his lady “friends” over the other side of the fence. He tends to be athletic and sporty in nature. So you can always find him outdoors, engaging in sports or traveling to some faraway place.  The more intellectual Sag will try to impress his potential mate with his knowledge or accomplishments. He is prone to exaggeration, however, and his stories need to be taken with a pinch of salt. Friendship is usually their modus operanti. 

 

Marriage: Sags have a good chance at happiness in marriage, provided their spouses are not the narrow-minded type. The worst type of partner for the Sag is the one who restricts his movements or impose boundaries on his thinking. Sags hate limitations of any type. A soulmate who can travel with him and explore new things together is perfect for the Sag. The same applies to the Sagi woman, who makes a talkative wife. Being talkative, she will always advise her husband and “teach” him to do stuffs. So the spouse must not be the sensitive type, for the Sagi tongue is quite blunt and they may unknowingly offend others with their bluntness.