Moon-Pluto: Dominatrix Wife

Moon-Pluto people are kinky and pervy, first and foremost. They have an insatiable hunger within them that cannot be satisfied. Men and women with Moon-Pluto (similar to Scorpio Moon) in their chart has an obsessive need for sex. All they crave is sex, sex and sex. Once you get them to bed, there's this ferocious beast waiting to rip you apart. They are also very seductive. I believe "magnetic" and "alluring" are the words to describe them.  

Moon-Pluto kids experience their mom as an overwhelmingly powerful figure in their life. Mother was not just powerful and in control, she looms above the child in a bigger-than-life way. She totally dominated their lives as kids. Childhood trauma is very common with Scorpio Moon. Something must have happened. Mother may not be involved. But they blamed mom, nevertheless. 

Like their watery cousin Pieces, the Scorpio Moon people have problems with boundaries. They totally enjoy invading the boundaries of other people, running them down and loves this sense of power and dominance over others. As a child, they might have felt helpless at some point. It's revenge time, baby. Unlike Pieces Moon who is a wimp, Scorpio Moon don't cry. They don't get mad. They get even.

Which brings me to my next point. Scorpio Moon loves power. They associate sex with power. Gaining power through sex may not be as negative as it sounds. Through sex, they are transformed. Like the Phoenix rising up from the ashes, Scorpio Moon folks are capable of extreme transformation - flying straight to heaven or going straight to hell. Boys with Scorpio Moon are attracted to their own moms, being Freudian to the extreme. They need to experience this feeling of being dominated by their wives, of being at the mercy of a woman.  

Moon-Neptune: Jesus Complex

Moon aspecting Neptune (conjunction, square or opposition) will produce a soft-hearted individual. This person has a need to be Jesus in their relationships. They are forever rescuing or saving other people from problems. They wanna feel noble and self-sacrificing. They wanna feel like matyrs so they always go for loser-type of partners - drunks, addicts, abuse victims, the poor or the unfortunate. The more victimized that man or woman is, the more attractive they are in the eyes of this Jesus wannabe. 

At its best, Moon-Neptune gives you beautiful dreams. It blesses you with artistic gifts, musical or literary talent and superb imagination. Like Moon in Pisces, this watery moon is very kind and giving in a relationship. They associate love with suffering, so they feel they need to suffer in order to love someone. At its worst, they are most likely to be conned and taken for a ride. It makes them indiscriminate when choosing partner and negative characters are drawn to this Jesus wannabe. When a Pisces Moon feels hurt, they always cry. They shed buckets of tears.

Astrologer Liz Greene talked about how watery moon people actually having mothers who invaded their boundaries when they were young. This is the root cause: boundaries. Pisces Moon folks fail to set clear boundaries in their relationships, and let others ill-treat them when they do not deserve it. They just cannot say "No" to others. In a man, he is attracted to domineering, forceful type of women. He will have a strong wife - stronger than him. People with Moon-Neptune (or Pisces Moon) struggle with self-esteem issues and feelings of self-worth.

If Pisces or Neptune is too strong in your chart, you might be dealing with issues of abandonment. You probably felt neglected during childhood. You may turn to drinks, drugs, charity or some form of escapism. You wanna escape from this cruel world by all means. Take a lesson from Capricorn Moon folks and learn to draw the boundaries - control your emotions - say "No"to others.

Moon-Saturn: CEO Wife

Moon in harsh aspects to Saturn will give you that CEO wife you have been looking for to manage your life. This earthy Moon wants control and authority, first and foremost. In a man's chart, he desires a woman who is competent, efficient, and can "get the job done." The wife needs to have outstanding leadership skills to help run his life. She must be able to help him to achieve his ambitions. The Moon-Saturn man admires a professional woman who can benefit his career. She needs to be successful enough to boost his status in society. 

The Capricorn Moon individual is goal-oriented. They have a need to rise in society and command respect from others. This is a famous "using" sign, as they are able to utilize people and resources around them to achieve their ambitions. They are careful and can control their emotions very well. They see emotions as weakness, and do not like over-sensitive or "soft" partners. Great leaders like Napoleon Bonaparte and George Washington have Capricorn Moons. This allowed them to command an army.

Astrologer Vivian Robson claimed that "many prominent politicians and businessmen owe their position and success...to their Capricorn wives." I find this to be accurate descriptions of Moon-Saturn people in general. This applies to both sexes, although it is more obvious in men, They seek out relationships for mutual benefits. Sometimes, they delay marriage and end up marrying late because they are careful. They tend to marry older partners who are materially well-off. All in all, the Capricorn Moon is a secret recipe for success.

Moon-Uranus: The Distant Lover

Moon in harsh aspects to Uranus in a natal chart gives you a distant lover. He or she is the unavailable lover - often being away or physically absent. The tendency is to have a long-distance relationship where they do not see you often. They want their own "space" and needs lots of freedom to move around and do their own thing. It is said that most pilots and corporate businessmen  have this aspect in their charts, since they are usually away from home for extended periods. Instead of breaking up the relationship, distance actually strengthens the couple since the Moon-Uranus person will be glad to have their own space yet satisfied with the occasional intimate moments with his wife. 

Sometimes accused of being selfish, the Moon-Uranus person is fiercely independent. He is actually afraid of commitments, so avoid being "attached" because it is viewed as neediness. He views neediness as being weak. While he or she pretends not to give a damn, deep down inside, this person is scared of being alone. To prevent loneliness, he or she may sleep around or turn promiscuous. They pretend to be cold and objective about relationships ("I don't need him"), but there is a deep inner fear and insecurity about not having anybody to love.

He is forced to be independent since childhood, needing no mother to survive. Mother was always absent, and unavailable to reassure the child in times of needs. Thus the child grows up not needing a mother. Very self-reliant and proud of that. So falling in love may be threatening.

Astrologer Bob Marks remarked that the Moon-Uranus person will run away from commitments. Once he or she realizes that they need their partners to survive, this individual will escape. In a man, he will be attracted to unavailable women - a woman who is out of town, another man's girlfriend, an Internet buddy or long-distance crush. The Moon-Uranus woman is much more needy. She hides her insecurity by sleeping around (to show she does not need a bf) or creating issues to break up once she goes steady with a guy. Generally, Moon-Uranus folks have unstable but exciting relationships that do not last long.    

Moon-Mars: Sexually-frustrated Man

Moon square Mars in a man's chart often indicates sexual frustration of some kind. Ancient astrology texts describe these men as "irritable" and "angry." But why irritable? To understand the male psychology, we need to know that moody men are the product of either hunger or sexual starvation. In this case, his sexual needs (Mars) is not being satisfied by his wife (Moon). That's right, he ain't getting any. Or he ain't getting enough. Maybe he's not getting the type he wants either, which is rough (Mars). The wife is sexually-incompatible with him. As a result, the man gets into frequent fights and arguments with his spouse. He blames her for rejecting or suppressing his manliness, and may even feel like a failure of a man. His big appetite may only be satisfied outside marriage, hence this is a common placement for playboys and unfaithful Casanovas.

Stephen Arroyo claims that Moon square Mars men feel that they cannot assert their masculinity (Mars) towards their wives (Moon), and that the wife has sabotaged their male ego. This is always a dangerous position for men, as there is a potential of revenge towards the wife, either in the form of violence, quarrels or fights. The risk of extramarital affairs is also increased.

The root of this problem comes from childhood, specifically, from the mother (Moon). He may have perceived his mother as having rejected or ignored his neediness as a child. She could be the aggressive type of mom, the action-oriented mom who did not nurture him emotionally. He may get into frequent fights with her. Some male clients with this placement even claim that their mom was violent. The seeds of anger towards women have been sown in boyhood, which blossoms into marital discord in adulthood.